Expect it to be long. Maybe even drawn out. This was the most amazing thing I have ever experienced in my life, next to marrying Roy. So endure it or hit the 'x' button.
I had the hardest time coming up with a name for this post. I settled on his date. It signifies so much in our life.
Monday 2-25-13 entailed nerves and excitement greater than ANY night before Christmas that I have EVER experienced.
Literally, we are walking in the hospital (we arrived about 11:15) and I look at Roy and tell him I dont know if I can do this. The thought of induction scared me. The thought of being a mom within the next 24 hours scared me. It all scared me.
Once we got to the floor we were settled into a room and let me just say this is where things started becoming wonderful. The staff on the 3rd floor of Rush are absolutely wonderful. From housekeeping to the physicians. The experience was one that was superb.
My nurse was Misty Sisson and she was absolutely wonderful. I could not have envisioned as wonderful of a nurse as her. She was so sweet and so encouraging. Being a first time mom is the most nerve racking thing you will ever experience. She made me feel confident, like I had done this before.
At 12 pm I was given a dose of Cytotec. It is a medication that you take that (if your cervix is ready) will begin to 'ripen' the cervix and push along labor.
3 doses later (8pm) I was given the last dose and had moved from 3cm-4cm.
Roy and I got a not so good nights sleep (nerves). I started my next morning at 3am. I took a long bath, got ready, and at 4am a Pitocin drip was started.
10am I was 5cm and at 1030 am on Tuesday (2-26) Dr. Nelson came around, broke my water, and the contractions came long and strong.
I had a wonderful anesthesiologist (Dr. Graham) who was so sweet and so personable. He came about 11:15 and the epidural (which I was more terrified of than anything) was not bad AT ALL. I had made it to 6cm without an epidural and was ready to go after it. I got a little rest and at 2:01 pm we started pushing.
By 3:00 on the dot we had a beautiful baby boy.
When I tell you I have been told literal HORROR stories about laboring and delivery- I will first hand be the GOOD story.
I LOVED it. I loved laboring. I loved delivery. I loved it all.
The thought that within a few minutes-hours I would have a son safely in my arms made any bit of pain completely worth while.
There was no screaming and yelling like on the movies. Even through the strongest contraction and toughest pain I was able to breathe, cry a little, and get through it.
At 3:00 pm when I looked down at a beautiful baby boy screaming at the top of his lungs and looked to my left and saw my husband with tears in his eyes starring at me whispering "you did it, i love you so much"- there was NO PAIN that could take me away from that moment. It was perfect. It was beautiful.
The first breath was so beautiful. It was a gasp. For the past 10 months Hayden had lived off of me. Taken breaths off me, eating off me, sharing my blood. The Lord had granted us a healthy pregnancy despite so many different 'obstacles' and now here he was breathing and surviving on his own. He was his own sweet little person.
When you become a parent your entire life changes. Cliche', I know. But, it does. I love my husband on a level that is completely out of this world. I delivered this 'mini' version of him. They even sleep just a like. :) Roy is completely content and consumed with Hayden. We both are.
Grant it, nights have been hard and there have been some obstacles since his birth but those are mini hurdles that we cleared with absolutely no problem.
I love everything about him. I love everything about being a wife. I love everything about being a mom.
I find myself looking at him and Roy often and usually finding myself extremely emotional. To say I am blessed is a complete understatement. These two boys consume my entire being. I now know what it means to love unconditionally. My marriage has even taken that role. I just THOUGHT I loved my husband. I really had no clue.
Hayden was 7-10. 19.5 inches. He was born at 3:00 pm on 2/26 and he is perfect.
I know I am not 'blogging' but rather telling a little bit of a 'story' so I will just let you look at pictures and enjoy those.
Besides, I have a fussy baby who needs a bath and food.
Until next time, Enjoy!
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| Preparing and anticipating (The day we got to the hospital) |
| We make a good team. :) |
| Dr Nelson with Hayden- Day #2 |
| Our little family with Missy our nurse. |
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| Welcome Home! |
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| Headed home. |
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| Love this photo. |
| We love our swing. |
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| He controls the paci. |
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| He loves the activity mat. So alert these days. |
| 2 weeks old & handsome as ever. |











